From wtweller at comcast.net Mon May 16 15:53:37 2022 From: wtweller at comcast.net (Whitney T Weller) Date: Mon, 16 May 2022 17:53:37 -0400 Subject: [Board] Needed feedback from a member...FW: Board Meeting Last Thursday Message-ID: <006c01d8696f$6618b050$324a10f0$@comcast.net> Greetings, Board of Directors; I have reached out to Mr. Cunningham and apologized for the way we treated him when he entered the club on Thursday night. Usually we have our BOD meetings in the Whaleback room for this very reason. This incident should remind us all that BOD meetings are not private unless we are in Executive session. All members are welcome to come and listen to the discussion as long as they are not disruptive to the proceedings. We should have realized that technically the clubhouse opened on May 5th and even though the opening event had not happened yet we owe our members the utmost respect. There was another person who came into the club to sign up. we drove her away also. I recommend that each of us find a moment to apologize to Joe if we see him around the club. By admitting our mistakes, it only makes us better managers moving forward. If any of you know the identity of the blonde women with curly hair please send her name to me and I will reach out to her and apologize on behalf of the board. >From now on we will use the Whaleback room instead of the main house. In this way we can limit foot traffic during our meeting. If a member pokes their head in, we will simply stop discussion and see if we can assist them in some way. It has been an eventful few days and I hope everyone has had a chance to express what a good season we have to look forward to, to our fellow members. Best; Whit From: Joe Cunningham [mailto:jcunningham at cai-ins.com] Sent: Monday, May 16, 2022 11:59 AM To: Commodore at PortsmouthYC.org Cc: RearCommodore at PortsmouthYC.org Subject: Board Meeting Last Thursday Good Morning Commodore Whit Weller & Rear Commodore Roger Wells I wrote to Whit last last Friday and got no response, so I am resending to you both at your club address. As a dues paying member of the club I do not care for the way I was treated Thursday night. I stated in my prior e-mail that Portsmouth Yacht Club Board meeting are held on the second floor. I was at the club Thursday and no notice was posted either at the club or online stating that the club would be closed, and the meeting held on the first floor. When I entered through the front door it was wide open and no notice the club was closed. I believe this is my 20th tear as a member and I don't like how it is starting. The lady that spoke to me speaking was unknown to me and was rude. ( Refer to bylaws members will behave in a gentlemanly fashion ). The last time I checked board meeting are opened to all members of the club. I understand a new member was excited and walked in and was treated in a similar fashion. The behavior the other night reflects poorly on the club. Joseph G. Cunningham -CIC Cunningham Associates Insurance LLC 53B Green St Portsmouth NH 03801 (p) 603-334-3343 (f) 603-334-3341 -------------- next part -------------- An HTML attachment was scrubbed... URL: From Roger.Wells at unh.edu Mon May 16 15:58:51 2022 From: Roger.Wells at unh.edu (Roger Wells) Date: Mon, 16 May 2022 21:58:51 +0000 Subject: [Board] Needed feedback from a member...FW: Board Meeting Last Thursday In-Reply-To: <006c01d8696f$6618b050$324a10f0$@comcast.net> References: <006c01d8696f$6618b050$324a10f0$@comcast.net> Message-ID: Whit, Good response. Roger Sent from my T-Mobile 5G Device -------- Original message -------- From: Whitney T Weller Date: 5/16/22 5:54 PM (GMT-05:00) To: Board of Directors Subject: [Board] Needed feedback from a member...FW: Board Meeting Last Thursday CAUTION: This email originated from outside of the University System. Do not click links or open attachments unless you recognize the sender and know the content is safe. Greetings, Board of Directors; I have reached out to Mr. Cunningham and apologized for the way we treated him when he entered the club on Thursday night. Usually we have our BOD meetings in the Whaleback room for this very reason. This incident should remind us all that BOD meetings are not private unless we are in Executive session. All members are welcome to come and listen to the discussion as long as they are not disruptive to the proceedings. We should have realized that technically the clubhouse opened on May 5th and even though the opening event had not happened yet we owe our members the utmost respect. There was another person who came into the club to sign up… we drove her away also. I recommend that each of us find a moment to apologize to Joe if we see him around the club. By admitting our mistakes, it only makes us better managers moving forward. If any of you know the identity of the blonde women with curly hair please send her name to me and I will reach out to her and apologize on behalf of the board. >From now on we will use the Whaleback room instead of the main house. In this way we can limit foot traffic during our meeting. If a member pokes their head in, we will simply stop discussion and see if we can assist them in some way. It has been an eventful few days and I hope everyone has had a chance to express what a good season we have to look forward to, to our fellow members. Best; Whit From: Joe Cunningham [mailto:jcunningham at cai-ins.com] Sent: Monday, May 16, 2022 11:59 AM To: Commodore at PortsmouthYC.org Cc: RearCommodore at PortsmouthYC.org Subject: Board Meeting Last Thursday Good Morning Commodore Whit Weller & Rear Commodore Roger Wells I wrote to Whit last last Friday and got no response, so I am resending to you both at your club address. As a dues paying member of the club I do not care for the way I was treated Thursday night. I stated in my prior e-mail that Portsmouth Yacht Club Board meeting are held on the second floor. I was at the club Thursday and no notice was posted either at the club or online stating that the club would be closed, and the meeting held on the first floor. When I entered through the front door it was wide open and no notice the club was closed. I believe this is my 20th tear as a member and I don’t like how it is starting. The lady that spoke to me speaking was unknown to me and was rude. ( Refer to bylaws members will behave in a gentlemanly fashion ). The last time I checked board meeting are opened to all members of the club. I understand a new member was excited and walked in and was treated in a similar fashion. The behavior the other night reflects poorly on the club. Joseph G. Cunningham –CIC Cunningham Associates Insurance LLC 53B Green St Portsmouth NH 03801 (p) 603-334-3343 (f) 603-334-3341 -------------- next part -------------- An HTML attachment was scrubbed... URL: From bgosselin5 at comcast.net Mon May 16 19:02:33 2022 From: bgosselin5 at comcast.net (WILLIAM GOSSELIN) Date: Mon, 16 May 2022 21:02:33 -0400 (EDT) Subject: [Board] Needed feedback from a member...FW: Board Meeting Last Thursday In-Reply-To: <006c01d8696f$6618b050$324a10f0$@comcast.net> References: <006c01d8696f$6618b050$324a10f0$@comcast.net> Message-ID: <997272208.4148058.1652749353514@connect.xfinity.com> Dear Board of Directors, I would like to be put on the agenda for our Board of Directors Meeting in June. I have been concerned about the direction of our Club for a number of months and this last incident with Mr. Cunningham and a newer member proves my concerns should be addressed. I look forward discussing a number of issues with the Board. Best Regards, Bill Gosselin > On 05/16/2022 5:53 PM Whitney T Weller wrote: > > > > Greetings, Board of Directors; > > > > I have reached out to Mr. Cunningham and apologized for the way we treated him when he entered the club on Thursday night. Usually we have our BOD meetings in the Whaleback room for this very reason. This incident should remind us all that BOD meetings are not private unless we are in Executive session. All members are welcome to come and listen to the discussion as long as they are not disruptive to the proceedings. We should have realized that technically the clubhouse opened on May 5th and even though the opening event had not happened yet we owe our members the utmost respect. > > > > There was another person who came into the club to sign up… we drove her away also. I recommend that each of us find a moment to apologize to Joe if we see him around the club. By admitting our mistakes, it only makes us better managers moving forward. If any of you know the identity of the blonde women with curly hair please send her name to me and I will reach out to her and apologize on behalf of the board. > > > > From now on we will use the Whaleback room instead of the main house. In this way we can limit foot traffic during our meeting. If a member pokes their head in, we will simply stop discussion and see if we can assist them in some way. > > > > It has been an eventful few days and I hope everyone has had a chance to express what a good season we have to look forward to, to our fellow members. > > > > Best; > > > > Whit > > > > From: Joe Cunningham [mailto:jcunningham at cai-ins.com] > Sent: Monday, May 16, 2022 11:59 AM > To: Commodore at PortsmouthYC.org > Cc: RearCommodore at PortsmouthYC.org > Subject: Board Meeting Last Thursday > > > Good Morning Commodore Whit Weller & Rear Commodore Roger Wells > > > I wrote to Whit last last Friday and got no response, so I am resending to you both at your club address. > > > As a dues paying member of the club I do not care for the way I was treated Thursday night. > > > I stated in my prior e-mail that Portsmouth Yacht Club Board meeting are held on the second floor. > > > I was at the club Thursday and no notice was posted either at the club or online stating that the club would be closed, and the meeting held on the first floor. > > > When I entered through the front door it was wide open and no notice the club was closed. > > > I believe this is my 20th tear as a member and I don’t like how it is starting. > > > The lady that spoke to me speaking was unknown to me and was rude. ( Refer to bylaws members will behave in a gentlemanly fashion ). > > > The last time I checked board meeting are opened to all members of the club. > > > I understand a new member was excited and walked in and was treated in a similar fashion. > > > The behavior the other night reflects poorly on the club. > > > > > Joseph G. Cunningham –CIC > > > Cunningham Associates Insurance LLC > > 53B Green St > > Portsmouth NH 03801 > > > (p) 603-334-3343 > > (f) 603-334-3341 > > -------------- next part -------------- An HTML attachment was scrubbed... URL: